I'm tired, incoherent, very surprised and somewhat confused. Just when you think you might know someone, it turns out you have no idea. What surprised me most was not the actual event but that it happened only last month. When I heard that, alarms went off and questions arose. But, what can I say? What do I know? I can't "hate" someone because of such a thing, but I also can't ignore the caution signs that just popped in front of my face.
I know I'm being intentionally vague since there's no need to be explicit. I know what I mean, and I think someone else does too.
I better sleep on it.