It occurs to me that the previous post might sound like I'm contradicting myself by saying in the beginning that people shouldn't think they have a profound effect on my actions, while complaining later on with such angst. Does that mean people do have an effect on my actions? No, I don't think so. My main points are:
- don't think that you have a special effect on my state of mind. because you probably don't
- unsolicited advice usually stinks, especially from people who never talk to me
- don't ask questions if you lack the attention span to listen to the answers.
That's all. just wanted to clarify, you know?